In honor of my five month anniversary I would like to share with the world how much love sucks. It sucks. It really does. I should just end this at that, but I'm pretty sure I owe it to myself to reason with my emotions. Just to make sure I'm not overreacting. Right?
I mean don't get me wrong. There are so many perks to having another half. Your soul mate. Your pair. The second sock. The other pea in your pod. It's nice having some one to cuddle with, telling you how important you are to them. Letting you know the many reasons why your existence is of so much value to them. Some one who can wake you up with a wonderful smile every morning, and put you to rest at night with that same smile. It's nice to have some one who can take you to places and make you feel special. It's nice to have a reason to dress up in that beautiful black dress, and curl you hair for a date night (At least for a female it is). All of these things are nice. But with love there is also war.
After the first month of un-realistic out-of-this-world happiness, life starts to kick you in the ass. Frankly it's saying, "Wake up moron, you have to go to work and be miserable." And if in case that doesn't suck enough, lets add a little bit of a spin to your love story. *Insert suspicious texts* *Insert overused excuses* *Insert overpowering doubt*. And then life says, "How do you like these apples now!?" Well life let me tell you, your apples suck! Some of us may choose to strive away from the doubt for a while, but don't act like it doesn't bite you in the ass at night. When you're up at two in the morning asking yourself why he doesn't wait up for your texts anymore, or why he doesn't show you as much affection anymore, or why he's got so many damn sluts on his social networks? Why????!!! Ladies, stop cheating yourselves. You know you think the same way I do sometimes.
Yes, most of the time we're just overreacting. We tend to get a bit emotional on minor topics. You're man is going to look at other women no matter how hot we are. Let's not act like we don't do it too.
But guys, when a woman is quiet that's when we need you to prove us wrong the most. Don't you get it? Tell us we're wrong about our doubts, but don't just tell us that, prove it! Show us that there is no other woman in the world better than the one that is by your side. And when you're ex-girlfriend texts you and y'all tell us that you answered her back making us extremely jealous and doubtful, don't get upset. Why the hell would you answer her? We're women, we overreact a lot to these situations!! Instead of going on the defense ranting about how you won't tell us when these things happen because we're childish, show us why we shouldn't get stupid. Show us how your past is your past and it will not get in the way of your present or future.
On the flip side, women sometimes we need let our men breathe. Just because we have an evil conniving mind and expect the worst in people doesn't necessarily mean men are the same way. Some men are cute innocent puppies. They make actions with the best interest in heart, and we just take our daily period rants and make them look like another Lord Voldemort. Let's get their side of the story shan't we?
Take it from a woman that is now spending her fifth month-aversary by herself. Love is as wonderful as it is a horror movie. But before you communicate out your problems how about you take five minutes for yourself and plan out what it is you feel, and why you feel that way. Then go work things out with you men. Okay ladies? Otherwise you'll end up a crazy cat lady like I probably will now... Actually now that I think about it, that wouldn't be too bad...
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